Dictionary Definition
noun: a combination of qualities, such as shape, colour, or form, that pleases the aesthetic senses, especially the sight.
Beauty to me is within ….not aesthetic (cliche right? I know!! But….). I’m not a size 6, I don’t have cheek bones, my legs don’t go to my armpits, they stop at my knee caps, and I have a frown line right between my eyes that makes me look permanently pissed off. But I’m usually the first to lend an ear, to help someone in need, give my time, have a somewhat jovial personality, volunteer, donate, I’m compassionate…these attributes make me feel wonderful, incredible, grateful and beautiful.
When do you feel most beautiful?
Foremost, Strength. Responsibility without authority. Doing the best I can, being strong despite my weakness’ recognizing my failures (with cheap wine), and rewarding myself for successes (with really expensive wine). Being compassionate and patient. Not with those around me, but with myself. I’m sensual by nature and have a lot to give
The fact that I am comfortable in my own skin, I’m compassionate and given the chance can be passionate. I’m a giver, not a good receiver. I get on with it, whatever is thrown at me. My resilience has bee tested and the fact that I have risen and strengthened that resilience, is testament to me.
Tell me your story:
what is the biggest turning point in your life?
Two parts here…..firstly having my kinds and secondly, becoming a single mum. Without a doubt, two of the most defining moments of my life. So much clarity… on what was expected of me both a a mother a and wife. Then I discovered my inner strength on both counts. I found elements within myself that I didn’t know existed.
Will always have an open mind, an ear to listen, step outside the square, give my best, not judge, be myself. What you see is what you get…could be pj’s or tulle and diamantes!
Tell me about a goal you are working on:
Getting through any given day is a goal. Long term: My kids being happy, successful, fulfilled, challenged. Short Term, continuing to challenge myself, stepping outside of comfort zones and making an impact on peoples lives….directly or indirectly
I don’t know if it is considered a goal, but if I can feel good about myself for a few hours knowing that I can help someone else in need (donation of $100.00 to Yacabba Centre) and inspire at least one woman to perhaps one day recognise both inner and outer beauty ….then that’s a good annual leave day off work well spent and my job is done.
Thank you, Mel , for taking part in this project. I hope to see you again soon!
Thanks to the wonderful team of Fresh Salon Nelson Bay that did the absolute amazing make over. ( www.freshsalon.com.au)